Okay, got into a discussion about this with someone, and thought perhaps my comment needed more background:
Person X: so do people assume you're not a woman/feminine because you don't want kids? Me: I've had people ask me if I'm gay because of it Person X: oh... i see, really? Me: yep Me: plus, there was that guy who couldn't date me because I wasn't a virgin, it made me feel like my "worth" was equal to my vagina
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Date: 2007-09-25 03:29 am (UTC)Person X: so do people assume you're not a woman/feminine because you don't want kids?
Me: I've had people ask me if I'm gay because of it
Person X: oh... i see, really?
Me: yep
Me: plus, there was that guy who couldn't date me because I wasn't a virgin, it made me feel like my "worth" was equal to my vagina