Okay, got into a discussion about this with someone, and thought perhaps my comment needed more background:

Person X: so do people assume you're not a woman/feminine because you don't want kids?
Me: I've had people ask me if I'm gay because of it
Person X: oh... i see, really?
Me: yep
Me: plus, there was that guy who couldn't date me because I wasn't a virgin, it made me feel like my "worth" was equal to my vagina